It’s considered the fidelity to be the most precious quality in the life. But modern views had changed a romantic spirit of relationships. The most precious quality is so so precious that nowadays many people don’t estimate it at all… In this way, man and woman prefer being in open relationships.
Open relationships suppose relationships when man and woman spend their time together, have sex, but they don’t put any obligations each for others. There are no reproaches, no requires and what’s most important no jalousie. That’s why partners live their lives, enjoy, don’t disturb private space each of other.
3 rules for successful open relationships
Man and woman must be ready and agree to start open relationships. That’s why if you decided, you must show:
1. Your respect to partner’s private space. Don’t forget the partner is important for you, so your aim is the harmony in relationships between you and not a big quantity of sex-partners.
2. The main role is given to your partner. Even if you are close in sex with other people, give the first place to your beloved.
3. Be ready to share. You must realise the level of your jalousie and conditions when you can share your beloved.
Of course, different people have different opinions about this issue. Furthermore, woman are more addicted to monogamy because on the level of unconsciousness she sees only one partner. If there are many partners that means she has no one.
As Angelina Jolie said, and I think Brad Pitt was quite upset of hearing her words: “I doubt that fidelity is absolutely essential for a relationship. It’s worse to leave your partner and talk badly about him afterward. Neither Brad nor I have ever claimed that living together means to be chained together. We make sure that we never restrict each other.”
That means there is no dependence each of others. No more lies and jealousies. Relationships with sex freedom are considered to be strongest. Nobody is obliged and responsible. In this case, it’s easy to break up in any moment without hurting.
A lot of people explain their willing of open relationships in the way that betraying is easy to admit. For those people love and sex is separate things. They can sleep with anybody, but they love just beloved partner.
Others consider open relationship can revive your marriage, make it stronger and spicy and it won’t break just because of boringness and lack of diversity. On the other hand, it’s easier to forgive betraying than to realize your common life is destroyed.
Will Smitt about his relationships with the wife: “Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people. If it came down to it, then one would say to the other: ‘Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it.'”
Of course different people have different opinions about this issue. Furthermore, woman are more addicted to monogamy because on the level of unconsiousness she sees only one partner. If there are many partners that means she has no one.
As for me, you can be faithful to your beloved, but you can betray him/her in your mind. That’s why the fidelity is not a choice. This is your feeling .
Maybe I have got old views on the life. I don’t approve this thing as: “I sleep with whom I want, where and when I want”. I couldn’t share my man with another woman. The point is my jalousie and the willing of self-respect. If my beloved prefers another woman, I let him go. Nevertheless, especially young people aim to freedom in relationships. Moreover, when a lot of celebrities are for, in that way it became a little bit as like a trend. As for me, it’s so interesting to find out what is special in sexual freedom and open relationships rules that a lot of couples aim to.